Monday, January 25, 2010
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I've only had about one major life change that was when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. I had moved out of my parents house the day the rest of my class was graduating. I wasn't allowed to go threw the ceremony because I was ¼ of a credit short. I moved in with my boyfriend of a short 3 months and we were together for 2 years and engaged to be married but I had a change in plans. He became very controlling and pushed me over the edge. I kept trying to leave him and he wouldn't let me leave and he kept threatening to kill himself if I ever left him. Of course I felt bad so I said well all of that started in October and by late December I had started talking to my ex boyfriend from when I was in high school. He was engaged to be married also and had a child on the way with his fiancée. We decided to hang out one day and well one thing lead to another and we ended up hooking up. We both kept it a secret from everyone including our husband and wife to be. Well we started hanging out more at night because my fiancée worked 3rd shift. One night I got my fiancée's vehicle for he night and I met up with Adam, my daughter's father, in Bloomington because he did a paper route out there. After the route we went back to my apartment and of course one thing lead to another and our daughter was conceived. My fiancée kicked me out and I had to move back into my parents. Before my daughter was conceived I had no idea what I was going to do with my life. When I found out that I was pregnant my whole entire world flipped over. I would do anything and everything for my daughter she is my whole entire world.
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It is wonderful how your daughter changed your life. Kids are special in that way. I know several people in situations like the one you were in with your fiancee and it is not easy. You seem to be going in the right direction.
ReplyDeleteDani, I appreciate your candid approach to this assignment.
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